Date Your Mate

This may come as a surprise to you but just because you marry your mate does not mean that you should not date. My grand-mother used to always say that to stay together a couple must fight together, laugh together and be together. You and your mate will grow closer as you spend time doing things that you both enjoy. Perhaps you all were attracted to each other because you are different but there are lots of things you can do together. That is where date night takes over.

Date night should be kept on a regular basis. You need to have a special night planned and not plan other activities at least once every week or so. These are times that are set aside for bonding and enjoying being together.

Date night should be a fun time and not one where the same thing is done over and over. Monotonous exercises can become boring quickly making fun activities more of a routine. Keep the passion in the alone together time with a wide range of interesting things to do.

Adventure is always interesting. Perhaps you are not a super hero but you can try out new things and gain a sense of adventure as you spend time together. It does not have to be elaborate or expensive. Simply trying new things, checking out a different destination or doing something unplanned will help keep the dates adventurous.

Remember the idea of these dates is to have fun together. Laughter can help add intimacy to your relationship. Leisure time should always have a bit of fun in it. No better thing to bring along with you on date nights is smile and the ability to have some fun


Remember your goal is to have a second date. So be sure that you try your best to impress your mate so they will say YES!!!